So, following on from the previous post... after discussing with Mel and Loz, I'd like to add that a grown-up job and long term relationship don't automatically equal being "grown-up". BUT the combination of these two factors CAN often lead to the state of mind of being "grown-up", where people start to discuss the prospect of mortgages & kids, and plan to stay in the same city in the same profession for the forseeable future. I agree with Lil that this is what some people want, and good on them. BUT a "random" life lacking in savings, material assets and a permanent full-time job is still rather attractive to me right now. Although a little more cash and a gorgeous guy might be nice! :)